There are all kinds of people out there. You may have chosen to be an introvert but after a while, it becomes a very lonely way of life. Maybe, it is about time that you would like to know more about how to make more friends..
When you are not sociable by nature, it is extremely tough to meet people and make new friends. People who are introverts do not exude a friendly vibe and they get tired very fast of socializing. They often become unapproachable and cranky. These are perhaps the main reasons on why you may be finding it difficult making friends even when you are trying hard. Unintentionally, you may be sending out creepy or stiff vibes. As most people move out with their friends in groups, your squeezing in as a stranger into that group will not exactly be given a warm welcome. This has to be done in a subtle way and this post will show you ways you can go about it. It is not going to be easy for you as you will have to move a little out of that comfort zone of yours and put considerable effort in forming slid relationships. No one is going to come forward and proclaim you as his or her friend.
Here are some valuable tips on making friends with random people.
- Start with feeling lonely and wake up with a realization that you want friends in your life. If you have one or more friends already, it would be a little easy for you and it does make a small difference. Maybe, you are tired of the circle of friends you have or they simply do not interact that much with you. They may not be hanging out so much with you and you want some more action.
- You will have to start moving out of your home a little more than you are used to – Without going out, there is no way you are going to make new friends. When you start going out and socializing, it all begins to happen then. Do not confuse making friends with talking to people on Facebook or on social mediachats on internet. You have to meet them in the flesh. So, make an effort and go out to meet people with some agenda in your mind. A small tip would be to head to a club or a bar every weekend and you are bound to see a group of people who frequent that place regularly and you can slowly start mingling with them.
- Small talk leads to big things – Even if you are finding it difficult while making new connections with every other person you meet, you can start by chatting several people with small talk and it will really help in the long run. When you start making small talk, you may have to keep that conversation going with some people that you getting comfortable with. If you are getting along well with someone, you do not have to walk away after ending the conversation. You can continue talking for some more time. You will find definitely find some commonalities the more you talk with a person.
- Get the contact details of people that you are clicking with – You may have to start asking for the contact numbers of people you are getting comfortable with. It is not at all uncivil to ask for phone numbers nowadays, even if they happen to be girls. You may begin by adding that person to your social chats and after a round of several conversations; you can ask for phone numbers and keep in constant touch with that person.